1. Light a white candle. (Or if you are near a candle store, buy a male - if you are seeking to reconnect with a man - or female - if you want to connect to a woman - shaped candle)
2. Face the candle and briefly examine the flame.
3. Close your eyes and imagine the flame burning bright and strong.
4. Think of the person who you wish to connect to and say their name seven times.
5. Then imagine yourself talking to them again.
6. Make a wish that you will see or hear from them again soon.
7. Blow out the candle.
8. Let me know if it works.
via Madam Lichtenstein's Cosmic World.