What were you thinking about, the day of your wedding? Did you think it was the happiest day of your life? Did it prove to be? Did you have doubts? Did you pretend not see the things you didn't like about your partner, but somehow knew would always be there?
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April 28, 2012
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It WAS the happiest day (till the kids were born)Did I pretend to not see things? NO. Did we have differences that at the time seemed exciting and resulted in later being major YES. Did we grow in different directions - by all means. If I'd been older, wiser, more mature (high school sweethearts) when I married, maybe I would have realized that our differences were not a good mix. I wouldn't have insisted we stay together the 2 times he tried to break it off before we married. But would I be the person I am now had I not been with him--no--did I have wonderful times and learn so much about myself and the world--yes. Do I regret marrying him? I really can't say that I do--but what do I have to compare it to?
Posted by: Jude | April 29, 2012 at 03:30 PM
Oh, phooey. I answered this one, too. But it's probably better there's no record of it. I'm too frank here. What's funny is that what Jude has said is almost exactly what I would say.
Posted by: Kristen | April 30, 2012 at 09:04 AM
I tried to call it off and spent my wedding day thinking that this was not what I wanted and weddings are basically bullshit. It's a party you throw for other people. It's ridiculous. I do love my husband though. It just took a very long time to realize that it's okay to be married. Married with a kid is most definitely not where I thought I would ever be though.
Posted by: Fawn | May 13, 2012 at 10:00 AM